** Limited Richmond availability in March ** Nashville March 16-18 **
What are we doing?
i would suggest a single sentence or two describing why you have three different options.



Unrushed Dates
I cherish opportunity for authentic connection-- the kind that can't be rushed. I offer relaxed date options so we can embrace an organic flow of events.
(Leaving a little room for spontaneity keeps our dates fresh, playful, and stress-free.)
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Locked Eyes
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We'll enjoy each other's company in a private setting, and at some point eat food. We can go out or order in, based on how we feel! This date is about 3-4 hours long.
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I adore food. I'm fortunate to be free from allergies, diets, or dislikes.
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I don't favor staying out later than 8pm (unless we're spending the night together). For dinner dates, I suggest meeting at 4pm so we have ample time to savor.
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Journey by Day
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It's like the Locked Eyes date, plus an activity! The world is our oyster. What's on your bucket list?
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Examples of an activity include: hiking, attending a concert, theater, show, museum, botanical garden...
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I like to rendezvous around 10 or 11am, but that's flexible. Prepare to spend 6-8 hours together, if your schedule allows.
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Blanket Fort
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I'm happy to get together for dinner before our sleepover, and linger over breakfast the following morning.
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8 hours of uninterrupted sleep is essential for my well-being. The first letter of "Zarie" is Zzzzzz.
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24+ hours
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It's the 'Locked Eyes' and 'Blanket Fort' styles, all wrapped up like a yummy little burrito.
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I'll require some amount of personal time each day so I can refresh and be at my very best for you.
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If we've never met before, we'll chat over the phone so we can catch a glimpse of our chemistry.
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Mix and Match
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Let's spend a big hunk of time together, in segments! It's great for work trips, staycations, and introverts.
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We enjoy a style of relaxed date over a consecutive series of days.
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Example: Day 1-- Locked Eyes. Day 2-- Journey by Day. Day 3-- Locked Eyes.
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Travel/FMTY
While I am decidedly forever fond of Richmond VA, I adore travel too. I'll require a minimum date style and maybe the cost of travel incidentals.
(Note that I do occasionally tour! I keep my website banner, Twitter, and Tryst ad updated with tour destinations.)
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One hour commute
I'll travel an hour outside of Richmond for a minimum 'Locked Eyes' booking. Qualifying area examples include: Charlottesville, Fredericksburg, and Newport News.
Between one hour and 2.5 hour commute
My minimum booking is the 'Journey by Day' option, plus the cost of 1-2 nights of lodging (depending on circumstances). Qualifying area examples include: DC, Wintergreen, Virginia Beach, and Lynchburg.
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Three hours and beyond
Anticipate 'Blanket Fort', '24+ hour', and/or 'mix and match' date minimums, depending on location and circumstances. I'll calculate the cost of travel incidentals to keep you fully informed.



Duos
Sharing is caring. Life is short, see two (or more) providers at once.
Duos are often creative and high-energy. There's a lot of limbs. And even more giggles!
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I recommend a 2+ hour booking for duos to maximize the possibilities, but this isn't a requirement.
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It can take some effort to align 3+ people's schedules. Advanced planning is strongly encouraged!
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Some providers have a rate-matching policy. This means that when rates between providers differ, the highest rate is paid to each provider.
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For example: Provider A's rate is $950. Provider B's rate is $1000. In a rate-matching situation, both providers receive $1000. The total for the duo date is $2000.​
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How To Arrange a Duo​
If you're an established client of mine:
Send a message over to me to express your interest in a duo. I'll suggest a provider who I work well with based on your tastes, or reach out to someone new. I'll act as the facilitator, and will provide you with everything you need to know.
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If you're an established client of another provider, and you want to invite me to duo:
Exciting! Let your interests be known to your provider. They'll be your facilitator. Your provider will reach out to me to hash out the details.
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If you're an established client of two (or more) providers. You want to bring us all together:
Send a cute little message out to each provider. We'll chat amongst ourselves and pick one provider to facilitate the booking process. We want scheduling to be smooth, easy, and effortless.
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If you want a duo with two providers who you haven't met before:
Contact us both, and provide your screening information! We'll definitely want to screen you in our own ways. Note that not every provider offers duos, and not every provider is prepared to work together. Thanks for asking nicely!