**September: touring Memphis, Knoxville, and Richmond!**
ETIQUETTE
Are we a good fit?
My clients share one commonality: they are respectful human beings. I see singles and couples of all shapes, sizes, colors, and genders. I enjoy spending time with adults of all ages.
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My style might be described as present, attentive, sensual, and playful. Our date is unique to us. I take great care to nurture our connection.
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You had me at "hello"
Feeling nervous is normal. Feeling uncomfortable is not! Please read this new client guide prior to reaching out.
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Are you concerned about discretion? I understand. Please make a Protonmail account so we can email in the privacy of end-to-end encryption. You can also send an inquiry via Signal, the most secure messaging app.
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When you are ready, you can contact me by filling out my booking form, or by sending an email to hellozarie@proton.me.
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Keep our correspondence "PG-rated". Use of explicit text, acronyms, or requests for services will result in me being unable to see you. Remember that I receive compensation for my time, not for services.
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You can anticipate a response from me or my helper, Kaylee, within 36 hours.
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Check your spam folder for my response! How'd that get there?
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Screening is believing
Screening is the way that I look out for my safety. I make sure that you're you. I run a full background check. I read your messages and ask myself, "is this a nice person"?
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I will guide you through the screening process step-by-step. It's often quick and easy. Please be prepared to provide your "real world" information, including name, birth date, and address.
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My reputation as a provider is hinged on my ability to protect your information. I treat it with the utmost care. I have never had a data leak.
I am happy to welcome you into my private Richmond-based incall space. Let me hang up your jacket as you slip your shoes off. This is a place of comfort.
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If you are providing my rate in cash, you'll set it down on a surface at the beginning of our date. E-payments are sent at least two hours prior to our start time.
A bathroom with toiletries and fresh towels is available for your use. I ask that you either shower at the start of our date, or arrive clean and hygienic. You'll wash your hands before we settle in.
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Beverages such as water, seltzer, tea, and coffee will be available. If you enjoy alcohol, I typically have a selection of wine, beer, and bourbon to offer.
Free parking is available along the street, or in a discrete and covered parking spot steps away from the entrance.
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My incall is a short walking distance away from bars, restaurants, and activities. There's so much to do!
Policies
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A deposit secures our date at my discretion. I'll let you know if I require one from you.
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Look out for a message on the day before our date! I'll reach out with specifics and reminders.
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We never engage in unsafe practices. Violation of consent will result in our date ending immediately.
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Recordings and pictures are not to be taken. Mental snapshots are unlimited.
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While I am grateful to receive a tip, I never expect one. I am an independent provider.
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Cancellations
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In the event of a no call/no show, 100% of my rate is due.
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For cancellations made within 24 hours of our date, 25% of my rate is due. A deposit will be required to secure future bookings.
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Cancellations made between 24-48 hours prior to our date will not incur a cancellation fee. Any deposit paid, however, will be retained.
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I cherish opportunity for authentic connection-- the kind that can't be rushed. I offer relaxed date options so we can embrace an organic flow of events.
(Leaving a little room for spontaneity keeps our dates fresh, playful, and stress-free.)
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Dine and date
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We'll spend a couple of hours exploring our company in a private setting before enjoying a meal. We can go out or order in, based on how we feel!
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I adore food. I'm fortunate to be free from allergies, diets, or dislikes.
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I don't see clients later than 8pm (unless we're spending the night together). For dinner dates, I suggest meeting at 4pm so we have ample time to savor.
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Day date
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It's like a 'dine and date', plus an activity! The world is our oyster. What's on your bucket list?
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Examples of an activity include: hiking, attending a concert, theater, show, museum, botanical garden...
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I like to rendezvous around 10 or 11am, but that's flexible. Prepare to spend 6-8 hours together, if your schedule allows.
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Overnight
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I'm happy to get together for dinner before our sleepover, and linger over breakfast the following morning.
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8 hours of uninterrupted sleep is essential for my well-being. Zzzzz.
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24+ hours
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It's the 'overnight' and 'day date' options, all wrapped up like a yummy little burrito.
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I'll require some amount of personal time so I can refresh and be at my very best for you.
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If we've never met before, we'll chat over the phone so we can catch a glimpse of our chemistry.
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Mix and Match
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Let's spend a big hunk of time together, in segments! It's great for work trips, staycations, and introverts.
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We enjoy a style of relaxed date over a consecutive series of days.
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Example: Day 1-- dine and date. Day 2-- day date. Day 3-- dine and date.
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What a beautiful sunset
Let's build on our connection between dates. I'd be thrilled to stay in touch with you!
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I post tidbits on Twitter @hellozarie and Blue Sky @zarie.bsky.social. Engage with me in the comments if you're feeling playful.
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Chat or text with me over the Signal app.
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I'm happy to provide a reference for you up to six months after our last date. Just notify me before you drop my name!
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I welcome reviews posted to Private Delights. Thank you for taking the time to support me.