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Sweet Anticipation

Are we a good fit?

My clients share one commonality: they are respectful human beings. I see singles and couples of all shapes, sizes, colors, and genders. I enjoy spending time with adults of all ages.

My style might be described as present, attentive, sensual, and playful. Our date is unique to us. I take great care to nurture our connection.

You had me at "hello"

Feeling nervous is normal. Feeling uncomfortable is not! I wrote this no-nonsense client guide because I want you to be as informed as possible.

Are you concerned about online privacy? I feel you. Consider making a Protonmail account so we can email in the privacy of end-to-end encryption. If we text or call, I'm always receptive to using Signal, the most secure messaging app.

When you are ready, you can contact me by filling out my booking form, or by sending an email to hellozarie@proton.me.

We'll keep our correspondence "PG-rated". Use of explicit text, acronyms, or requests for services will result in me being unable to see you. I receive compensation for my time, not for services.

You can anticipate a response from me or my helper, Kaylee, within 36 hours.

Check your spam folder for my response! How'd that get there?

Screening is believing

Screening is the way that I look out for my safety. I make sure that you're you. I run a full background check. I read your messages and ask myself, "is this a nice person"?

I will guide you through the screening process step-by-step. It's often quick and easy. Please be prepared to provide your "real world" information, including name, birth date, and address.

My reputation as a provider is hinged on my ability to protect your information. I treat it with the utmost care. I have never had a data leak.

Welcome to my incall space! We might meet in a rental, an apartment, a house, or a hotel. I'll pick a neat spot where we'll both be comfortable. Let me hang up your jacket as you slip your shoes off. Let's unwind.

If you are providing my rate in cash, you'll set it down on a surface at the beginning of our date. E-payments are sent at least two hours prior to our start time.

A bathroom with toiletries and fresh towels will always be available for your use. I ask that you either shower at the start of our date, or arrive clean and hygienic. You'll wash your hands before we settle in.

I try to pick spots with straightforward parking options.

I love to be a short walking distance away from bars, restaurants, and activities. We'll have no shortage of things to do!

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I offer outcalls to new clients at hotels only. I will sometimes visit the private residence of regular clients who I've developed a strong rapport with.

If you are providing my rate in cash, please leave it in the restroom prior to my arrival. E-payments are sent at least two hours before our start time.

It's important to let me know what room number to find you in at least two hours prior to our meeting time. If this is impossible, just tell me in advance! I won't make my way over to you without receiving that room number.

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We'll be meeting at the venue, not in the parking lot. Please respect my privacy by not intentionally seeking me out in my vehicle.

If you are providing my rate in cash, you can conceal it in a card or some other discrete method. Remember to hand it to me at the beginning of our date. E-payments are sent at least two hours prior to our start time.

When we hop from one spot to the next, we'll likely take public transportation (or walk together). Please do not expect that I will ride in your car.

What are your needs for discretion in a public setting? Let's talk about your comfort levels.

I'm happy to accompany you to restaurants, shows, concerts, and outdoor events. I'll walk for miles by your side, or sit and relax contently.

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I cherish opportunity for authentic connection-- the kind that can't be rushed. I offer relaxed date options so we can embrace an organic flow of events.

(Leaving a little room for spontaneity keeps our dates fresh, playful, and stress-free.)

Locked Eyes

We'll enjoy each other's company in a private setting, and at some point eat food. We can go out or order in, based on how we feel! This date is about 3-4 hours long.
I adore food. I'm fortunate to be free from allergies, diets, or dislikes.
I don't favor staying out later than 8pm (unless we're spending the night together). For dinner dates, I suggest meeting at 4pm so we have ample time to savor.

Journey by Day

It's like the Locked Eyes date, plus an activity! The world is our oyster. What's on your bucket list?
Examples of an activity include: hiking, attending a concert, theater, show, museum, botanical garden...
I like to rendezvous around 10 or 11am, but that's flexible. Prepare to spend 6-8 hours together, if your schedule allows.

Blanket Fort

I'm happy to get together for dinner before our sleepover, and linger over breakfast the following morning.
8 hours of uninterrupted sleep is essential for my well-being. The first letter of "Zarie" is Zzzzzz.

24+ hours

It's the 'Locked Eyes' and 'Blanket Fort' styles, all wrapped up like a yummy little burrito.
I'll require some amount of personal time each day so I can refresh and be at my very best for you.
If we've never met before, we'll chat over the phone so we can catch a glimpse of our chemistry.

Mix and Match

Let's spend a big hunk of time together, in segments! It's great for work trips, staycations, and introverts.
We enjoy a style of relaxed date over a consecutive series of days.
- Example: Day 1-- Locked Eyes. Day 2-- Journey by Day. Day 3-- Locked Eyes.

While I am decidedly forever fond of Richmond VA, I adore travel too. I'll require a minimum date style and maybe the cost of travel incidentals.

(Note that I do occasionally tour! I keep my website banner, Twitter, and Tryst ad updated with tour destinations.)

One hour commute

I'll travel an hour outside of Richmond for a minimum 'Locked Eyes' booking. Qualifying area examples include: Charlottesville, Fredericksburg, and Newport News.

Between one hour and 2.5 hour commute

My minimum booking is the 'Journey by Day' option, plus the cost of 1-2 nights of lodging (depending on circumstances). Qualifying area examples include: DC, Wintergreen, Virginia Beach, and Lynchburg.

Three hours and beyond

Anticipate 'Blanket Fort', '24+ hour', and/or 'mix and match' date minimums, depending on location and circumstances. I'll calculate the cost of travel incidentals to keep you fully informed.

Sharing is caring. Life is short, see two (or more) providers at once.

Duos are often creative and high-energy. There's a lot of limbs. And even more giggles!

I recommend a 2+ hour booking for duos to maximize the possibilities, but this isn't a requirement.
It can take some effort to align 3+ people's schedules. Advanced planning is strongly encouraged!
Some providers have a rate-matching policy. This means that when rates between providers differ, the highest rate is paid to each provider.
- For example: Provider A's rate is $950. Provider B's rate is $1000. In a rate-matching situation, both providers receive $1000. The total for the duo date is $2000.

How To Arrange a Duo

If you're an established client of mine:

Send a message over to me to express your interest in a duo. I'll suggest a provider who I work well with based on your tastes, or reach out to someone new. I'll act as the facilitator, and will provide you with everything you need to know.

If you're an established client of another provider, and you want to invite me to duo:

Exciting! Let your interests be known to your provider. They'll be your facilitator. Your provider will reach out to me to hash out the details.

If you're an established client of two (or more) providers. You want to bring us all together:

Send a cute little message out to each provider. We'll chat amongst ourselves and pick one provider to facilitate the booking process. We want scheduling to be smooth, easy, and effortless.

If you want a duo with two providers who you haven't met before:

Contact us both, and provide your screening information! We'll definitely want to screen you in our own ways. Note that not every provider offers duos, and not every provider is prepared to work together. Thanks for asking nicely!

Policies

I might prefer a deposit to secure our date. I'll let you know if I require one from you.
We never engage in unsafe practices. Violation of consent will result in our date ending immediately.
Recordings and pictures are not to be taken. Mental snapshots are unlimited.

In the event of a no call/no show, 100% of my rate is due.
In the event of a client cancellation, deposits are non-refundable.
For cancellations made within 48 hours of our date, 30% of my rate is due.
In the rare event that I must cancel, you'll be taken care of. Any deposit will be returned and rescheduling our date will become my priority.

Cancellations

What a beautiful sunset

Let's build on our connection between dates! I'd be thrilled to schedule a few phone calls to tide us over. Also virtual movie nights are super fun :)

I'm happy to provide a reference for you up to six months after our last date. Just notify me before you drop my name, pleeeease.

Tips are always appreciated and never expected. I am an independent provider and I run multiple small businesses. My work brings me closer to actualizing my dreams, and my rates are set with this in mind.

** Richmond availability through the summer **